Right Justified

This space is intended to rightly justify my thoughts, make sense of the complexities of my emotions and give meaningful truth to my life learning experiences.

Best Friend Zoned

I don’t often take interest in guys, or at least rarely past the superficial aesthetics or casual conversations. So, when I do it’s an odd feeling.

Sadly, the rare times I favour my heart over my mind, I am faced with a dreadful reality. I for one reason or another, make a great friend, even a best friend. As much as I am honoured by such status, a part of me is selfishly saddened. 

I hate to rant like teenage girl with layers upon layers of insecurities, but I truly question my potential as a partner. I wonder if there will ever come a time when I can serve as more than a friend. I long for the day to be desired as more than a pillar of support.

Ultimately, its a matter of reciprocation. After all, it is the foundation to a healthy relationship, along with communication of course. Maybe one day, I can be a best friend to someone who wants to be mine in return. For now, I’ll take comfort in knowing that I can be of value to others.

Hey, I only need to find prince charming once in my life time, right? 

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